Meeting people is definitely the first challenge in dating especially after you leave high school and college to join the real world. Meeting people at work is considered a taboo and guys at bars aren't often the kind of person you'd really want to date long term. These days you can even meet people from the comfort of your own home by using different sites online. But does that make it any easier? People can say whatever they want and use older photos or photos that aren't even of themselves. You can never now for sure until meeting someone if they are who they claim to be.
Everything about a first date is scary to practically everyone. You have to make sure your hair looks nice, clothes are nice and appropriate, your skin doesn't have a huge freaking zit, you smell nice, your breath doesn't reek, and so many other tiny things. Another issue is where do you go and what do you do? What do you talk about, and how to react during an awkward silence. What if you have to fart or burp? Who pays for the dinner or whatever you end up doing? All of this is very situational, and greatly depends on how the date is going. Except for farting and burping those are not allowed. At least until date five (just messing). Just do your best to stay calm and make light of any mishaps that might occur along the way.
Nothing about dating is easy or stress free so I guess all I can say is go with the flow and never settle for less than what you deserve; to be happy.
Here are a few funny videos that tie into the dating theme of this particular post. Enjoy.
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Listening to: "Girl is on My Mind" by The Black Keys
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